Let's stop upholding the pain already! 

As I deep dive into the Martyr constructs I am so aware of how many of us are literally stuck in upholding the cycle. 

A Martyr is defined as: 
A person who is killed because of their religious or other beliefs.

More than likely you have been a martyr in one or more lifetimes. We all know the stories of the witches burn or the people who were stoned for having different beliefs. 

You're already aware of how differently you function within this reality.... But what's interesting is.... The Martyr Complex.

The Martyr Complex is someone who always seems to be suffering. 

According to Sharon Martin, LSCW, Someone with a martyr complex “sacrifices their own needs and wants in order to do things for others.” Often not doing so gratefully but doing so out of guilt or obligation.

If you have Martyr Complex you may have many of the following: 

• You do things for others even if you don't feel appreciated. Many of us do this. When your stuck in a Martyr complex you do this and feel bitter or angry afterwards.
• You feel like nothing is done correctly unless you do it yourself. 
• The people you spend most of your time with make you feel bad about yourself. Maybe yours friends are over critical. Your family makes you feel bad about your choices.
• You feel constantly dissatisfied with life. You might be stuck in blame or resentment. 
• You have a pattern of always taking care of everyone else except yourself.
• You feel like you can't do anything "right." 

These can lead to: 

• Burnout.
• Lack of positive change.
• Strained Relationships.

In this clearing call series we will deep dive into the constructs upholding the system of being a Martyr. 

This series will include four pre-recorded clearing calls: 

Call One: Clearing out the paradigms of suffering
In this clearing call we will deep dive into the constructs of suffering. What if your just tied into suffering because you have done it for so many lifetimes? Ready to change that now? 

Call Two: Pain and Punishment
In this clearing call we will deep dive into the pain and punishment connection. Are you addicted to the energy of pain and or punishment? What if you can release that now? 

Call Three: Being Saintly
There's some kind of glorification element to sacrificing yourself for others. Like Mother Theresa. She was so saintly she sacrificed her entire life to care for others. There's something so unsettling to that... Here we dive in. 

Call Four: Releasing Resentment
Here we will dive into where you maybe stuck in the cycle of resentment. Maybe someone resented you or your progress at some point and now you must uphold resentment? Here we will dive into the form and structure of bein resented and upholding resentment. 

Live Call #1: Clearing Out The Suffering Paradigm
In this call we cleared constructs around suffering. We also did lots of religious construct clearing as well. Time to stop upholding the suffering paradigm. 

Live Call #2: Sacrificing You
In this live call we are looking at everywhere you have been taught this selfless, sacrificial energy of sacrificing yourself for the greater good or sacrificing yourself and your own needs to help others. Also taking on responsibility for others and even where you may have given others responsibility over you. 

Live Call #3: Surrendering to the concepts
In this live call is a continuation of clearing out the core level of these martyr concepts. Here we are just giving ourselves more space and surrender to allow this to unlock within our beings. 

This series is now complete. 

This series is not intended to cure or treat this in anyway. It's purely used to see what type of energetic change we can create. 

Please note: If you attend the live call you maybe called on for live facilitation. If you do not want to be used please let Jamie know prior to the call. This live call will be stored and listened to by everyone in the program. 

I gathered lots of information about the Martyr complex here.